I need some opinions here: H is trying to schedule several days for either chores around the house or for us to hang out, both with and without D12. I don't want to hang out with him right now. I just don't.

This is called starting to take care of yourself, and its absolutelly fine, you are setting yourself a bondary and if thats what you feel you probably should honor it....when we are in this D process we dont allow ourselves have feelings or set boundaries to ourselves because our self steem its low and tell us that anything we do for ourselves will push them away....its not true! Who could be more attractive than a person who take care of themselves? wink


When the student its ready, the teacher will appear...
Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me."
Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.