Ok, she has no income right now, that will kick in within say 3 months, so it will go away soon. Was advised by L not to cut things off, because of the whole "lifestyle to which she is accustomed" thing. I have been trying to pick a number for a while now. I kind of backed into it by looking at what I pay on her card now, subtracting what would be joint expenses, and then cutting that some.
