When confused, just smile and nod! Part 6

[whytry]

I'm curious about where to read about MLC in the "illness" way. I've been dealing with changing in ways I've never dreamed possible, but how do you know if/when they are "cured" for lack of a better term? Why should I wait and see? I'm lost and all the reading on this site and others is controversial on both sides and I'm looking for the light at the end of the tunnel. Does it mostly end for better or worse? Why can't vows mean anything?