When confused, just smile and nod! Part 6

[whytry]

I'm curious about where to read about MLC in the "illness" way. I've been dealing with changing in ways I've never dreamed possible, but how do you know if/when they are "cured" for lack of a better term? Why should I wait and see? I'm lost and all the reading on this site and others is controversial on both sides and I'm looking for the light at the end of the tunnel. Does it mostly end for better or worse? Why can't vows mean anything?

[whytry]

I've been reading on here and other sites a lot but nobody seems to know what or when a mlc is over or is ending. Has anyone faced or seen those signs?

[whytry]

I hope one day I can be strong like you BB. My kids are young and love us both so much it's hard to imagine splitting time with the 3 of them. The roller coaster is old and I'm afraid of any highs worried about the lows. Should I just let go and see if it's real? We are each somewhat happy separate, but the age old what if it could be better together? Everything I thought I knew and was doing is now in question.