Thanks jp787 - i keep being told not to frighten him off & I think expressing my boundaries right now may cause him to run in the opposite direction which is why I thought I'd wait a little while and let things settle if that makes sense?
Yes that makes sense. No relationship talks until it’s time for them or they will come off wrong. Take is slow and easy, hard to do :-) especially when you see positive
The one thing I will say thogh is if you have a boundary that he is breaking now, you need to let him know and inforce it. If it is a deal breaker now that he is on contact with her, you need to let that be known. If it can wait until you are at a point where you bother are ready to move forwad togeher, then wait for that point, but it has to be put out there then.
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
