Thanks jp787 - i keep being told not to frighten him off & I think expressing my boundaries right now may cause him to run in the opposite direction which is why I thought I'd wait a little while and let things settle if that makes sense?

Correct, at this point its better not to interfere and accept the things the way they are....


When the student its ready, the teacher will appear...
Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me."
Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.