Husband's porn addiction and my affaire

[jp787]

Many people come here wanting to save their marriage.

After reflection, most find that the marriage they knew is gone or is toxic and needs to end.

That they need to focus and work on themselves and that is what will bring happiness, which is what will allow you to be ready for a new marriage with your current spouse or life with someone new or life on your own. The goal is to become confident, happy and fulfilled with a life with yourself regardless who else may be or not be in your life with you.

You can only control you. You can only change you. That said, doing those things may change your life and people in it.
Honestly I would suggest you look at figuring out who you are, what you want and become that. If you want to stay with your husband, than make a plan and stick to it. If your husband wants to be part of your life than he will change, if not then he will not.

I am sure that there are many emotions that come with finding someone new and having fun, yet they will only hinder you right now. Take some time to figure out who you are and who you want to become.