3BM you sound so positive and so determine, your doing AMAZING and should be so proud of yourself!
Your situation is very very similar to mine although my H has been through rehab so has had a lot of intense therapy therefore is further along, my H had the "luxury" of being able to focus on himself without any external distractions and it gave him a huge head start and gave him the tools to continue the work afterwards, its very hard to dig deep whilst also living life isn't it - he still struggles at times but he's doing well & trying his best which is admirable.
When I went complete NC with H it gave him a real taste of what life would be like without me around, maybe your H moving into his own place would do that too? I did it for myself mainly but his reaction since has been a bonus. Have you considered changing the dynamics completely? Stopping "family time" at home, maybe do it elsewhere so its not in your home?
Keep it up 3BM, your doing fantastic!!!
Divorce Final: Oct 2014
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