It sounds like your husband was aware that you knew of his addiction and you are upset because he did nothing about YOUR feelings. Is he responsible for YOUR feelings?
Yes, absolutely he is responsible for any actions of his which cause me to be hurt. That's what a marriage is suppose to be. You are suppose to uphold, cherish and warmly love your spouse. Of course this is a two-way street. In a marriage both the H and W are responsible to make sure that nothing they do damages their spouse. If either of them disregards the other, then the results cannot be taken for granted.
I think Cadet asked a very good question and I'm not sure you saw this part.Is he responsible for YOUR feelings?
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
