I agree with LFW, 3. You handled that surprise info so well! This is the new you!

I don't understand why our H move away and don't want the kids to go to their new home. Why is this? My H REFUSES to have the kids where he is (loser friends basement). He is embarrassed and ashamed, but it's the ultimate reality of D. How do you feel about it?

Also, the Sunday family time is great. I know the kids love it. Is a part of you fearful of losing that last family tradition, too? Maybe you could agree to meet at a restaurant for Sunday get togethers to prevent the revolving door syndrome your H seems to have.

Me:33 H:35
M: 12 years
D-15 S-6
Bomb: 6-2013
OW: 11/2013
Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair
Kids and I moved back in 12/2013
H moved out 2/2014