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I worry about the same thing. I have ugly moments of anger and bitterness and recognize immediately how awful it feels and how unhealthy it is.

I think awareness is the big key here. We know the options for paths we can choose to walk.

Our H are so unhealthy right now. I am getting better at deflecting the anger and not taking it personally. How are you handling those things?


Me:33 H:35
M: 12 years
D-15 S-6
Bomb: 6-2013
OW: 11/2013
Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair
Kids and I moved back in 12/2013
H moved out 2/2014