Hi Updwards!! It sounds like things are going really well. I agree with Breakdown. Makes sure to take things really slow and protect yourself. I have found that it is A LOT harder when the WAS is nice. It is much easier to keep working on yourself and not getting caught up with the WAS when they are anger or mean.
It is good to hear that he has ended things with the OW. However, she really does need to be removed from the equation completely. Your H probably needs time and he is the one that needs to decide to completely cut contact.
Just make sure that you continue to protect your heart a bit. Back in November, I went dim with my H and set boundaries. Just like your H, my H started to pursue me a bit. Things have been going really well for the past couple months..compliments, flirting, ML. He told me that we are not done, he does not want to file and that he still cares about me. He told me that he is scared that I am going to move on. After years of H not paying much attention to me and being mean, it felt good. But when I looked at this actions, they did not support what he was telling me. He did not cut ties with the OW, is considering moving into a new place, etc.
Sorry to blabber, but I mention this to make sure that you are are careful with expectations. Take things slowly and make sure not to scare away the squirrel. I hope that things continue to improve!
