Yeh i'm going to keep on with it for him to say it he must have put a lot of thought into it because he's sworn that he will only ever come back if he's 100% because it wouldnt be fair to me to accept any less... I know its just words but I do believe he means it. I wont be getting my hopes up too much though, I know we both have a lot of healing & figuring out to do both apart and together.
He's also ended the R with OW too, he's still in contact but tonnes less than he was and its dwindling - that in itself is a huge step in the right direction. Also the way he's acting around me is so different, he's speaking to me like a real person and with respect again... what other actions should I look for?
I've not mentioned anything to him since & havent mentioned anything thats been said over the weekend, i'm just letting him do the talking really as that seems to be working best - i'm letting him come towards me instead of the other way around.
Divorce Final: Oct 2014
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for him to say it he must have put a lot of thought into it because he's sworn that he will only ever come back if he's 100% because it wouldnt be fair to me to accept any less... I know its just words but I do believe he means it. I wont be getting my hopes up too much though, I know we both have a lot of healing & figuring out to do both apart and together. 