So I want to deal with the joint account thing tomorrow morning. It's the start of a new quarter, so it's a good time. I'll post the outline shortly, just wanted to get a few other thoughts out first...
I told W on weekend that I thought it would be a good idea to set up a joint account for expenses. She just wants me to add her to my main account. (not happening at this point.) I really want to start to get some separation between my personal stuff, joint expenses, and her personal stuff (which is out of control). And I want to get the shared contribution to joint expenses model in place before her income comes online. (she will absolutely freak)
As suspected, she has discussed this with everyone.
She doesn't understand why I don't just add her to my main account. (uh, so you don't clean me out) Apparently, I'm missing the whole point of "shared". (except that I know that she's plotting D)
She is convinced that I won't add her to my account because I must be hiding money or something.
On the iPad front, she is done waiting and plans to just go buy one. (on her credit card that I want to distance myself from)
and Sandi, this one's for you... She doesn't understand why I haven't come to her looking for sex since Christmas. She's very grateful that I haven't, (as we both knew) but she doesn't know why I haven't. So it's as I said yesterday. She is convinced that by denying the A, that I must believe there is no A, and if I'm not looking for sex, there must be another reason for that. I guess if you tell big enough lies long enough, you really lose track of reality.
