3B, sometimes we need those doses of reality to wake us up. you handled that with dignity and grace.

I agree with LFW, don't try to predict the future, we live in the now; tomorrow will take care of itself.

It's wonderful that your H continues in counseling, people who can't look inward don't make very good partners or parents. Your kids are lucky.

I had a convo with my IC just yesterday about letting go and how that allowed other people room to step up. That simple practice changes my life every day.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss