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Re: Take Two ... Train #2442287 04/01/14 01:16 AM
Joined: Mar 2014 Posts: 1,433 T Train OP Member
OP Train Member T Joined: Mar 2014 Posts: 1,433	I wanna be Plan A, dammit. M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014

Re: Take Two ... Train #2442292 04/01/14 01:30 AM
Joined: Oct 2010 Posts: 6,810 Florida S Starsky309 Member
Starsky309 Member S Joined: Oct 2010 Posts: 6,810 Florida	Originally Posted By: Train I wanna be Plan A, dammit. Good! So did I. To be honest, I really don't understand anyone who settles for anything less than that. Starsky M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07 At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)

Re: Take Two ... Starsky309 #2442294 04/01/14 01:44 AM
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OP Train Member T Joined: Mar 2014 Posts: 1,433	So, riddle me this (from the post before that one): Why does he pursue me when I withhold sex ... but he pursues HER when she puts out??? I need to understand the male psyche on that. Or is that only something a CHEATING male could answer? M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014

Re: Take Two ... Train #2442383 04/01/14 01:48 PM
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OP Train Member T Joined: Mar 2014 Posts: 1,433	That jacka$s friended me on Facebook (which he hated and never used pre-BD) on Sunday, when he was being nice, and last night changed his marital status to "separated." OUCH!!!!!!!!!! M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014

Re: Take Two ... Train #2442384 04/01/14 01:49 PM
Joined: Mar 2014 Posts: 1,433 T Train OP Member
OP Train Member T Joined: Mar 2014 Posts: 1,433	Be the water, Train. Be the water. Be the water. (Y'all know it's bad when I start posting back to MYSELF.) M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014

Re: Take Two ... Train #2442390 04/01/14 02:08 PM
Joined: Mar 2014 Posts: 786 T twinmom Member
twinmom Member T Joined: Mar 2014 Posts: 786	Block him, do not allow him do control you! Me: 35 husband:39 Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage Twins 5 (boy/girl) Daughter 3 Affair bomb 2/27/14 He moved in with ow 3/13/14 OW kicked him out 6/15/14 4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction

Re: Take Two ... Train #2442395 04/01/14 02:17 PM
Joined: Oct 2010 Posts: 6,810 Florida S Starsky309 Member
Starsky309 Member S Joined: Oct 2010 Posts: 6,810 Florida	BLOCK HIM. M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07 At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)

Re: Take Two ... twinmom #2442396 04/01/14 02:18 PM
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OP Train Member T Joined: Mar 2014 Posts: 1,433	Well, this serves as a good (and fast) lesson for me; you can rest assured my guard won't be dropping again any time soon. I don't think I'll block him just yet. I'll exercise some self-control and just elect to not receive notifications from him. And then, in my own time, I'll use our new social-media "friendship" as the tool it CAN be ... for ME. That knife can cut both ways. M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014

Re: Take Two ... Train #2442397 04/01/14 02:19 PM
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OP Train Member T Joined: Mar 2014 Posts: 1,433	If it becomes a source of heartache because I just can't stop myself from looking, I'll most definitely block him. M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014

Re: Take Two ... Train #2442398 04/01/14 02:21 PM
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OP Train Member T Joined: Mar 2014 Posts: 1,433	Crap. Maybe y'all are right. I don't wanna get down in that muck. BUT, if I do it now, I think it'll look reactive. M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014

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