Gosh, I'm not an expert like the many others. However, I felt it necessary to chime in to this one.
You can't make him less confused. Forget it. My h is extremely confused. Heck, my 9 and 10 yr old see that. And what do we do about it? Nada. All on him. I'm not interested in trying to fix something I can't. I don't ask anything and I have 3 kids under 10 with the man. He's confused. I'm not.
Stop having chats. Seriously. Who talks ad nauseum about wanting touch and potentially having dinner in the future? You either do it or you don't. You sure as hades don't talk for hours about it.
Detach. Focus on you. These convos are an epic waste of time and breath. Handle the business aspect and skip the sex/non sex chats. Just my 2 cents.
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
