my position: that I am not going to invest time in a relationship that he "doesn't know" and isn't willing to act on his feelings
I said... actions speak louder than words, and that he is showing his true colours right now.
also, blah blah blah... taking 2 years, dating others, crossing paths missing each other, bad timing... etc I asked if thats what he wants, for us to move forward and try others (he said no).... under my breath I said "I'm not waiting"... he asked what? I said never mind. He repeated "not waiting"....
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)