Separate and Filed walking on

[paul19510]

I went to my S12's hockey clinic tonight. the Art of body Contact. he learned to give and take a check properly. Hitting, hitting and more hitting. he he he. Very relaxed now

W seems calmer now. I did send her an email after speaking to my L. She cannot "force" the kids to go with her on custodial nights. If they choose to stay home with me, that is their prerogative. I have explained it and they understand that they may choose to go or to stay depending on what they have that night or how they feel. if they wish to be home, they may stay home.

I told W that I spoke with L and we'll try to mediate with just him at first and see if we can craft our future together with guidance and then hire a L for her to make sure its a fair deal for her. She agreed to this approach. We'll see what happens.

I told W that this is not ultimately what I would have chosen, but I accept her wishes to not be married anymore and I am moving in that direction.