But I don't get it: I *withhold* sex, and he pursues. She *puts out* sex. And he pursues.
Explain?????
He'll be picking up the kids Thursday. I have a L appt so won't see him long. He's also getting them Sunday. Some police friends of mine wanna go shoot big guns. I'm going with them (even though I never liked shooting guns until 4 weeks ago - lol). So I'll make myself scarce Sunday night, too. Maybe that will give me back my mojo.
But WHY do I WANT him to pursue me?
I WANT him to end his stupid filthy nasty A.
M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014