Wife came home from parents with no mention of move-out date, etc. kind of a surprise. Put the kids to bed and then asked if I cared if she went out to meet some friends. What was I going to say? Wish I had just stuck with "not at all" but instead went with the slightly lengthier "I always prefer your company but I also don't mind if you want to go meet up with your friends". That's not too bad I guess. Plus it's the truth, so...
What I found most interesting is that before she left she came over and sat on my lap, and in the way out the door she called me "babe".
I think the take-away here is to not obsess over everything she says...or that I say.
H: 43 W: 37 M: 11 years T: 12 years S: 11 D: 8 ILYBINILWY, "I want to move out" and "I want a divorce": 3/23/14 MC started: 9/22/14 Affair and past infidelity discovered: 9/26/14 Piecing: 10/20/14
