not sure how far gone we are...

[SeanB]

I finished DR. The W confirmed her EA and gave me the ILYBNILWY type of speech.She reiterated her desire for space, and had we the financial means, would have asked for me to get a place to stay.
She needed to separate from BOTH of us (the OM) to clear her head.

I reminded her I was continuing IC and extended an offer of marriage counseling. she agreed to it, but the counselor wants us to do IC first. Stating that if the individuals were not stable, it made it that much harder for the M to succeed. I am so relieved she wants to work on herself and knows she has to create space from everyone to get her head clear. Not sure if I am doing this right...I keep doing my 180's, and she has noticed some of it. I just have to steel myself for the journey ahead.