I made a joke with my wife in bad taste a couple of months back that she didn't take too welll. I thought things were getting better but the wounds were too raw to be making such jokes. Your event sounds similar given the past couple of days. My wife set a boundary for such things and I never went there again. Perhaps explain to him why you felt it was inappropriate. You've done so well to do things to help yourself so stay true to that path.


Me: 31, W: 29
T: 4 M: 2
Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3)
Separated, still living together: Nov 2013
Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014
W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014