He's either on his phone or computer. He spends alot of time on Zello which is a text and partyline.

You are absolutely correct. Definite warning signs and I need to protect myself against anything he may be doing. He did not use protection during his A so there's no telling what I could be in for. Because of the lies, I cannot trust anything he says.

It's a lovely day and I'm going walking after work to really think about my next steps.