Not a white lie... more truth based. I am going away with the Womens Group... we both have referred to it as "school", I have informed him in the past that it is a "womens" group... I did NOT inform that today. It is an international meeting taking place across the border.
As for his bad behaviour... I need to remember to say "I am not appreciating the way you are speaking" and hang up... I forgot, because it had been a while since he was a jerk!
As for the potty situation.. in our R, we had an open door policy... its part of our closeness. It is not disrespectful. This was only noticed, because he withdrew just before BD not allowing me to see, closing doors, not allowing touch, not even slight arm touching. When outdoors, he began walking far away and around corners, behind trees, etc. Then, very recently he commented how he liked that about our R, that we were close and able to do that infront of eachother. He liked our closeness. He did not do it "infront" of me, but immediately behind me.. not behind a tree, etc. Still turned/angled, but not direct. Thats all.
We have a client appointment now... he "seemed" nicer, on the phone.
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
