Today at work my H made a joke (in bad taste!) and said "tell him your my Mrs... or ex-Mrs if you want" and laughed, I said it was uncalled for and he apologised and said he didn't mean it that way at all it came out wrong - he then said "ok tell him your my temporary ex-Mrs" with a big smile, I was a little taken aback so I just changed the subject... What do I make of this?!
Well you can add it to your biography or you can just not pay attention and thats it... Do you like he tell you those things? If you dont then dont go to that path, if you dont like it just say: Those comments are not appropriate in a work place, lets focus in what its important...work we can do those tasteless jokes when we are not working.
And leave it like that, smile and focus on your job and thats it, its not what he says, its our response what mades them not respect us.
I am gonna give you an example, the other day I was working and I had to show my manager she was wrong, my old me will had confronted her and tell her thats weong!! Instead you know what I did? I went proactive, did it the right way and leave it like that, from that moment she started to do it always like that... The trick? I was confident and believed in myself, so she could not doubt, words are words, and you dont pay attention to that.
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
