yeah, OW is going to watch the kids? Your ex can handle them for 12 days?

Um. Right.

Can I suggest however that you build in a delay before you answer your ex the next time he asks for help with the kids? The reason for that is to take that pressure off of you and to keep you from being so available from his perspective.

That will help you to disentangle from his ups and downs more and more, and will help him to understand his responsibilities (at least a little more).

AJ


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