WANT TO COAST ON FLAT LAND

[Ambivalent]

I just had THE most awesome conversation with my daughter! We covered EVERYTHING!

She shared with me her lunch with my H. her father. She was so proud of herself! She called him out on everything, even the infamous receipt ! And by the by... she said she found it. Yes the receipt I got told I was mind reading over!

I was SO validated...I was right, and it was for "Julie". He was so flabbergasted and speechless, that he tried to lie, and she busted him again. Hahaha! I didn't have to say or do a thing! She also told him that she would never accept this woman or anyone else.
Ya think she has a bit of my sass?

I'm proud that she got off her chest what she needed, for she has been stewing out of anger and fear. Not anymore! There was an interesting thing he told her..." I don't want you to worry about paying for your school or your mother. I will always take care of her and your school, even if I have to eat ramen everyday. ".

I'm not sure how to even absorb THAT one. I'm just letting it roll for now.

We talked about her "cupid" meet up, and she also met a thirty one year old guy, that she was taken aback by. It is her roommate's boyfriend's friend. I told her she should open herself up to guys in the 30-33 year range. She was always skeptical of much older guys, which when younger she should have been! But she is almost 22 and is wise beyond her peer group, and way more focused and mature to date them.

We talked about sex! YAY! I asked her if she had explored herself and was comfortable with it. YEEEEES! She has had an orgasm!!!! She is still a virgin and I just want to make sure she knows her body. I don't want either of my daughters going as long as I have , or to feel so uncomfortable that they can't share such a beautiful and natural part of love.

We talked about her major, her classes, the doctorate she's going to consider! All is AWESOME! God I feel so blessed to be able to have her in my life. I want to cry I'm SO HAPPY!