Raine, I'm very happy for you and your family. What better way to celebrate spring...but w/recovery and new beginnings.
It's been a long journey for both of you and you both still have a little ways to go. Take things slowly, keep the door of communication open and always take the time to listen to each other. Life has a way of turning things around.
Congratulations!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.