3B all I can say its one thing, your self steem its getting back to the normal levels, I dont see nothing to be cautious about what you did, you did one of the most important things you could it done for yourself, you took care of yourself, you expressed what you need and want and that my friend its one of the biggest steps you will ever take, the universe its going to show how important is what you did. You are on wheels, moving forward and a steady pace towards your goal, being the best you, and that my friend its huge, really really big!!! Congrats to you, when our SPouse BD us we get in the fixing mood trying to fix everything and take care of all "their demands" for what we did "wrong" here is the curious part, in that proccess we tell ourselves subsconsciently hey hold on on your needs, lets focus in what SPOUSE wants and see how we can give them that.... Then we areive to this forum and we realize that in this divorce busting process we have forgot a part that we never tought it was important...you guess that part?
Yes that part its ourselves, what we want and what we need, and one day we work towards that, accept the situation and accept our spouse and we focus in ourselves and amanzingly everything starts to make sense and wow now we are ready to forgive and move on... Thats the path 3B, the only path who could bring you a new relationship with your H or other people, because you have found what 3b wants and needs, and you are not going to give up that for nobody
Congrats again and a pleasure to read you!! Keep strong!!
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
