I have been on board for over a week, not to entwine relationship with business. I can see it now.
Hmmmm.... it all makes sense.
Advina, the "co-dependancy/abusive" of my statement suggests him or me is co-dependent? I already know that I am, and am "trying" to work on it.
Yes, the way to learn it... is to do it.... But, that's exactly what I used to do before... not sure of the difference now. I guess just keep doing it, regardless of "his issue" about it.
Ken, you make a good point...however, informing him of my weekend...gives away all my cards. Isn't he supposed to "wonder" sometimes?
Gabby, i like what you suggest too....however, he will assume "shopping"... and I don't want him to think "shopping"
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)