First, immediately go to amazon/B&N (or run out) and get Divorce Busting or Divorce Remedy.

Read them immediately!

While counseling will help, you need more tools then that, and it will help guide you to some things to avoid.

Me: 43
M: 10y
S:15
ILYBINILWY 2/18/13
W moved out 2/18/13
Filed for D: 2/17/13
Got DB: 2/20/13
Got DR: 2/23/13
180 & LRT Began: 2/25/13
D Final Dec '13