And, just to show some growth:

I let go of the birthday thing a few days after it happened- I truly am indifferent about it now (I think the pain from my surgery added to my reaction). But, that's an improvement for me, as in the past I'd still be mulling it over in my head flow awhile.

And, a former friend hurt me really really badly 5 years ago. I was talking with my BFF yesterday and realized I've let THAT go, as well. That's huge for me! I'm proud of myself for that one!!! smile only took me 5 years... :-/

As my insightful friend told me last month, this time was given to me for personal growth. I believe it!!!


Me: 39
H: 45
Second marriage for both
H left 12/2013
M:4 T:5.5