Told her my thoughts on her child tonight. She seems pretty certain that OM wants to be involved with the kid heavily. She also thinks that her bond to him is only going to grow and they are going to get back together. She says they are not back together as of right now, but she thinks OM was just scared.
She says if she wasn't having a kid she would probably try to make it work with me, but now it seems like she's split and she's mad that she is having to make a choice to hurt me or to hurt OM. (I think she's assuming that OM is going to want to be with her, once she gets divorced)
I've got to get my place up for rent. She did say OMs parents are planning to move next year, so I may only have to be out of my house for a year or so. But that may change once they find out about the kid.
I'll update if anything changes but for now, it appears its a wrap. I'll just keep working on myself for the next relationship I'm in.