Since the last couple of weeks a co-worker (who also happens to live in my neighborhood) has been looking at me with bedroom eyes and doing lite-flirting (without my encouragement). I can't deny that I am beginning to notice him too and have started to feel attraction towards him (although I am trying hard to not give him any signals).I have been feeling a desperate need for a mans attention and am fully aware that my husband cannot satisfy this need due to his porn-induced impotence. I would like to treat my marriage as an "Open" and allow myself no-strings-attached sexual gratification outside marriage.If anyone on this forum is in an open marriage (as a tool to avoid divorce), I would like to hear your views ?