Upwards - DB myself to happiness! #2

[Upwards]

Yeh makes sense melissa - reason I'm confused is that obv DB tells you to "do what's working" and complete NC has really brought him towards me but at the same time complete NC gives no chance for positive interactions. Low contact before that also began to get his attention although it wasn't such a drastic change.

He rang me this evening after his meeting (AA) and that's something he hasn't done for probably 6-8 weeks, I wasn't sure whether to answer but did & he was ringing to see how I'm doing and for a chat...

I'm conflicted because I know "being friends" and connecting is the foundation to poss moving forwards to a new relationship but we also both need space to work on ourselves & I don't want to hinder that, need to find a balance I suppose?!