Not so much crazy as inconsiderate but the consistent use of the word "my/mine" when referring to our things.
That "MY money" or "I" paid for that" drove me nuts. I definitely see it as a sign of something NOT good, whenever it happens.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
"Why do you keep saying I 'don't live here', when I visit every other weekend!"
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
Not so much crazy as inconsiderate but the consistent use of the word "my/mine" when referring to our things.
That "MY money" or "I" paid for that" drove me nuts. I definitely see it as a sign of something NOT good, whenever it happens.
Yeah, my wife is very much in yours and mine mode at the moment. Last time I checked we were sharing a house and kids :-)
Me: 31, W: 29 T: 4 M: 2 Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3) Separated, still living together: Nov 2013 Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014 W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014
When my H is mad and wants to push my buttons, he calls S7 and D9 "MY children." In all caps and everything.
When he does that, I have a little fantasy that I tell him that one of them isn't actually his. (They are both unquestionably his, but it would be fun to watch him sh!t his pants.)
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
Not so much crazy as inconsiderate but the consistent use of the word "my/mine" when referring to our things.
That "MY money" or "I" paid for that" drove me nuts. I definitely see it as a sign of something NOT good, whenever it happens.
Yeah, my wife is very much in yours and mine mode at the moment. Last time I checked we were sharing a house and kids :-)
My W did that too. My barn. My horses, my truck. Mostly paid for with OUR $$
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14
Paul, I bet she will be thrilled to learn that all of that is marital property . . .
I'm sure she already knows. that can be her half. I just need the house and car for my kids
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14
So my wife has run all her credit cards to the max and fails to pay on them. When they can't get the money directly from her they go hunting into accounts that she has listed to find what they can grab and they find the account that our mortgage pulls from automatically and over draw it. Tonight when i find out and call her she says," I don't see it as my fault." Lets see, how do I get it through to her that she is responsible for paying her bills. I finally confronted her on it over the phone and she doesn't want to rely on me, but then gets denied to cosign student loans for daughters, calls and says I am the only one she can rely on and yet wants to go out and date someone.
Twisting on Life's Rope Me53 W53 M20 D21 D19 D16 BD 2-2013 D final 1-2015 _________________________ "Dream about tomorrow, Live for today, Learn from yesterday"
Take it from someone who had a W that knew how to run up credit cards- PROTECT YOURSELF ASAP. Contact a lawyer right away and discuss this. He/ she will probably suggest that you close the account the mortgage is drawn from and set up a new account in your name only and have the mortgage drawn from that. Do you have a S agreement in place? If not then consider it (if it's allowed in your state). Designate the date she moved out as the date that you ceased to be a couple, and that date should also be the cutoff on which you each became responsible for your own debts. Without some kind of agreement in place you are at risk of your W slapping half her new debt on you. Good luck!
