Not so much crazy as inconsiderate but the consistent use of the word "my/mine" when referring to our things.
That "MY money" or "I" paid for that" drove me nuts. I definitely see it as a sign of something NOT good, whenever it happens.
Yeah, my wife is very much in yours and mine mode at the moment. Last time I checked we were sharing a house and kids :-)
My W did that too. My barn. My horses, my truck. Mostly paid for with OUR $$
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14