This morning my W may have addressed or thought about my feelings for the first time since the separation. She asked if I had read the newspaper this morning, which I hadn't. She said that I may not want to because the was a story about my best friend who died the year we got married and his organ donations.

His passing had a monumental effect on my life and I have struggled dealing with it. I was surprised she mentioned it to me. She may be thinking about more than just herself now. I don't think she would have extended the courtesy earlier in our situation.


M:34 XW:34
Together: 10y
Living: 9y
Married: 7y
Son:6 Son:4
Separated: 12/28/13
Piecing: 5/2/14
Separated 2nd: 10/16/14
W filed, but pulled it: 11/5/14
papers served: 1/27/15
D final: 3/6/15