I thought that a little background info about my H might help give a little perspective:
1) H is 5' 7" in height and overweight by about 30 lbs (Chubby) 2) H has low-ambition. He has being stuck as a middle level manager for more than 15 years. (job title and responsibilities haven't changed) 3) I am 100% sure that H has never had an affair cause he cannot form emotional bonds with anyone 4) The only way H can get sex outside of Marriage is if he "pays" for the service. I am not ruling this out.