Julie, you asked above "Have I learned nothing?"

What have you learned? I know you've learned some things and other things are there but you might be in process.

What do you think you should have learned that makes you ask the question?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss