Well you did better. If I could tweak your response it would be like this:
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I said it's you who doesn't want to be here so go if you don't like me here. I said why can't you just be nice and pleasant to be around; it's like you just switched on to be this way once you filed. She says I could be nice but you would think I'm trying to reconcile our marriage and I don't want you getting the wrong idea.
The reason I would have scratched that sentence is b/c it comes across as kind of pleading or whining. But maybe it didn't sound that way when you said it.
I'm not nit-picking, only trying to help you learn.
I have to ask......why do you go out the same nights she does?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!