I know this is tough. It's difficult to break old patterns, some of which we don't even see. Falling into the victim role is so automatic for many of us.

Be proud that you made a decision that is best for you.

Don't allow her anger to make you think you've done something wrong. But be realistic that you both will have uncomfortable feelings throughout this process, it's a given.

Those feelings don't have to control you.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss