My h would do the same thing- take long naps. He was unable to take out the trash or do literally anything ..,even fill the dog dish with water. However , (and I'm not saying your h is this way) h could go get drunk with friends while still here. Now that he is gone he still can't be bothered with the children or any other responsibilities except for work. However , he can go out with his new friends and devote his time to his new. 26 yr college gal pal. It's whatever they think makes them feel good.
It's great that your h is talking to you. However, they are beyond self absorbed at this time. It's all about them. As a result, you have to make your life all about you and your kids. You can't stop you or your children's life for a crisis you can't control.
Hope you have a greet day.
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
