"I suppose that showing anger is appropriate, or do I just ignore her back, a cold war?"

Luke, my opinion is that you should do neither. At this point, what she does should not affect you.

you need to get passed worrying about what she does or thinks.

but instead you're still gauging your self-worth on her whims.


a man of confidence and strength would note her actions, and move on without any other thoughts.

if you need to feel anything, maybe feel pity that she's so shallow and hurtful and childish.

"In a ham and eggs breakfast, the hen is involved, but the pig is committed".