Seems like your H is looking for help.

What a great sign.

Dont begrudge your H for sleeping on the couch all day. It is a good sign that he is still at home.

Unfortunately right now you are gonna have to carry a heavy load. Maybe look for some outside help like a babysitter or grand parent to help you with the kids more. MLCer is not gonna be able to help in that way, they need to get their head together first.

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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13