It helped me to hear, again, "You can't make this sh!t up"
I still have moments where I can't believe this is happening to me.
Even now, I sometimes get flashes of "He's my H, he can't MARRY someone else"
These moments are getting fewer and farther between... I think because i have so little contact with him now that I sometimes fall back on memories of him as the man I used to know. I have to keep reminding myself that that man is long gone.
