I have a question. Not sure if you all can answer or not.
After you go dark how long did it take some of your H/W's to start coming around to communicate with you? What where some of the signs you all saw that they wanted to start working on your R with you?
I am going on almost 4 months of no communication. Is this somewhat normal?
I have read DR and DB and all the links that people told me to. I have also read about depression and how to help heal it and i have more books on hold at my local library. I am trying to get as much information as i can so i can learn what my H is going through. I know we all have different story's but some are kind of the same. Can someone maybe help me see some light on this. I just feel like because we don't have kids he isn't going to want to come back and work on this. Did anyone else have this same feeling?
W-37 H-36 No kids H-moved out Nov 08,13 H-no contact Dec 18,13 Married for 10 years Together for 12 years
