Read sandi's 37 rules and have been thinking a lot about them. Kind of made me think up one of my own... If you have to think about whether or not to do or say something, don't. The correct thing to do or say will make itself apparent to you. Until then, just don't.


H: 43
W: 37
M: 11 years
T: 12 years
S: 11
D: 8
ILYBINILWY, "I want to move out" and "I want a divorce": 3/23/14
MC started: 9/22/14
Affair and past infidelity discovered: 9/26/14
Piecing: 10/20/14