thanks so much for your encouraging posts, they really do help. I have been reading my book on rebuilding and am discovering some things about myself. I went out last night with girlfriends and that was a lot of fun and all part of GAL. H is coming over tomorrow to drop off the biweekly check for health insurance. I told him he could mail it but he said he'd come by Sunday. I'm thinking he just doesn't have any stamps/envelopes lol. I will be pleasant and no expectations. Last time he barely spoke to me which I sort of thought would happen. I'm sure this won't be any different but I'll be open to listening. D is final next Friday. I am starting to enjoy being alone more. Not feeling so lonely and just doing things for me. Today i'm a bit lazy and I think i'll bake cupcakes. Been raining all day so yardwork is out of the question. So glad I have dogs though to keep me company too :)have a good weekend everyone!! remember to do something just for you!


Me - 42
exH - 56
Married 10.5 years
Together 17
bomb dropped 1/6/14
signed papers 2/4/14
H moved out 2/22/14
D final 4/4/14
Dropped the rope 5/17/14
2 cats, 2 dogs